Do you know that there are inbuilt
natural principles which are universal and every human being is supposed to
live according to them?
Those natural principles are what
mean YOU and they are the one which determine your natural character and habit
at the end. Most of us are living according to how we are programmed by our
social values hence we contradict ourselves as we are living against our
natural unchanged principles.
For us to be successful and effective in our life we must take care of these
universal principles so as we can be changed in our usual habits that make us
unsuccessful, stressful, not effective, guilt and unsettled in relationship
with others.
The natural principles or laws which
I am going to describe to you now are the one which naturally build your permanent
personal character and out of your character is where your habits come and we
can see your habits in your actions.
Let us look at these natural
universal principles of human beings
TRUTH
How do you feel when you speak truth
if you compare to when you lie?
The feeling you get is what prove it
to be a natural principle and character of human beings. There is no any human
being who will naturally fell free and relaxing forever as he/she lies because
we are made to live the TRUTH, and every one becomes confident, happy and
relaxed as he/she speaks or doing TRUTH. Truth never change instead we are
changing against it and by doing so it means we are living against our selves.
You can cheat but still truth will stand stead and demand you to stop cheating
for it will make you feel guilt and contradict your personal character.
Do you believe in lies?
Some social classes use lies as their
tool to defend themselves so as they can get what they want and they wonder why
they are not relating well to each other. It is because they are violating the
natural law of being TRUE. Violating this natural principle is like trying to
hinder waterfalls without preparing a new channel for them to flow through;
they will end up destroying your hindrance mechanism. That is how TRUTH is, you
may violate it by lying but it will keep on showing off itself so as you can
live accordingly.
HUMANITY
How do you feel every time you affect
others negatively?
You may emotionally do something bad
to your fellow human being but afterwards feel bad and guilt from what you have
done, this is due to the fact that one among our inbuilt natural principle is
having humanity in us. Our humanity is what makes us help each other heartedly
as a result we love one another; we participate in building our society, nation
and world at large.
Humanity is what makes you a patriot
to your country, organization but also ready to take care of those who cannot
manage to help themselves.
This is why as human being we cry as
one among us dies or get offended in one way or another, we feel guilt and
sometime we may die because we have killed someone, all these are results of
living against our self natural law which is HUMANITY.
DIGNITY
How do you feel when other people do
not respect you?
That feeling you get shows that every
one naturally needs a sense of self respect and control. You feel good to be
respected, you also feel good as you respect yourself. In opposite you feel
desperate and discouraged as you fail to maintain your dignity every time you
do the things that destroy yourself respect like being in rough appearance,
being lazy, using rude and dirty words or language and so forth. Being good is
an inbuilt character which is within every human being and it is a universal
natural principle. You will find everyone according to their culture try to
maintain their dignity however what mean dignity to one social class may become
an offence to another society. For instance in one kingdom in South Africa
walking half naked to a virgin girl shows her dignity while this mean not
respecting a woman in Tanzania.
AS YOU CHANGE YOUR ACTIONS NATURAL PRINCIPLES NEVER CHANGE
Natural principles which make human
character are like hard rock, they never change, we are changing ourselves that
is why we contradict ourselves and become ineffective at work, life and our
actions become of life destruction but as we get back and start living these
natural principles again we are sure of positively changing our life to a
successful one.
Here I am talking about changing your
character (the way you look at your own life) for doing so will change your
habits and actions hence your whole life will be positively affected and
changed as well. I want you not to dwell into techniques of being perfect with
your personality like dressing in a certain way, using a certain language to
convince others or any other quick fix techniques, instead I want you to dig
deep into your character which is built up by these natural laws from which all
you want like looking good to people, relating well to people, working hard,
not being lazy are rooted from.
Repositioning yourself to these human
natural principles is not an overnight process, is a life you should start
living from now and as you try your best to practice every day is how you
change your life and become new. It may even take a year and more than that but
as you are living accordingly you will everyday see changes in your life. Keep
on improving!
GOOD-LUCK!
By Erick Chrispin