Sunday, November 11, 2012
how to defeat great fear in you.
HOW TO DEFEAT GREAT FEAR IN YOU
There is a great fear that holds you back in your life, do you know it?
That is your fear of failure which holds you back from achieving your great success in life.
Most of the time when you try thinking of undertaking your goals and dreams into reality is when your negative inner voice start ringing and telling you an extent you are going to fail on that. It starts giving you some strong reasons why you are going to fail and the end result is you stopping to implement your goal and that is it. You normally remain a dreamer and goal setter not an achiever, you then start feeling guilty for not implementing what you planned, your inner joy also goes away because of that.
Is this challenge real relevant to you? If so here is the solution;
YOUR FEAR OF FAILURE IS NOT TRUE
Your fear is not true because you normally fear on what you do not see in reality. For instance; you are dreaming to start a business (it is still in your imagination) you put it in your plan (still you haven’t started implementing it so it is not in its reality) then when it comes to starting implementing it a voice within you tells you you’re going to fail, that is not true! How comes you are going to fail on something you haven’t even started to implement?
DON’T ENTERTAIN FEAR OF FAILURE, DEAL WITH IT NOW.
As I said before, your fear of failure is normally not true, if you want to prove this use a following strategy to defeat it.
1. Identify and define your fears.
Just write down on paper everything that you are fearing for or that makes you fear to start implementing your goals. Make a list of them without omitting any of them, just brainstorm and list them down, I believe all of them will come into your mind. At this moment don’t judge them so that you cannot omit any of them, just write them down.
2. Choose the most and analyze it.
After you have listed them down now try to look at them in detail and identify a great fear which holds you back and write it aside. Start analyzing it by asking yourself the following questions
ü How such a fear holds me back in my life?
This will open your mind-eyes and you will now see the big extent to which this fear is letting you down most of the time.
ü How does it help me or how has it helped me at the past?
ü And the last important question is for you to ask yourself on how and to which extent will it pay you if you eliminate your fear from now on.
The answers to the last question is what will inspire you and push you to eliminate your great fear hence go to implement your dream and goals very quick. There is no need to fear, what you need to do there on is instead of avoiding your fear you just confront it and instead of going back from it, move towards it and ultimately that will be your behavior and will be built in you and you will never see fear of failure in you anymore.
Remember your fear of failure which holds you back is not true please don’t entertain it and you are surely going to succeed and achieve your dreams.
By Erick Chrispin