WORK HARD ANYWAY!

When life is getting so tough and challenging keep on working hard anyway. I am telling you this because I am pretty sure that your precious dream for success is right there waiting for you to pursue it. The situation may be discouraging you so much, almost everyone runs away from you but at least you can’t run away from yourself, you can still talk to yourself and creatively think, strategize and go on following your dream.

It can reach a point where you are financially block, no more motivation to work and earn income, please! The worthiest thing you can do at that point is keep on working hard as if you are about to earn an abundant money for if you stop working you will be stagnating the money making mechanism hence lose all hopes of living successfully.

Your boss can be discouraging you so much due to his/her personal reasons but that should never be a reason for you to stop working hard, remember when you  work hard and produce more you are not only doing it for your boss but for yourself too. You become competent in your career, other people see and like you most and they are the people who will value you and reward you with better job than what you have now plus big salary.

The dream you have in your life is 100% true and accomplishable only if you are going to commit yourself into doing it and working hard to achieve it. The amount of hard work you put into perusing your dream is equal to the achievement you are going to see or get. So if you want to get higher achievement it means you need to work harder than before. Work hard anyway coz that is going to realize your success at the end.

Jack Canfield the writer of principles for success once said if you work 45 hours a week is just for your survival but any hour you add on top of that every day is for your future success, is for your dream achievement, he also added that whenever you go to work, work don’t play with other time wasters for they are letting you down, they make you not achieve your intended goals and dreams. Work hard anyway.

Do you want to see your dreams come true! I hope so, please keep on working hard. Assume you are swimming and now you are deep into water struggling to come out for a little breath, you never give up struggling, that is like working hard to achieve your dreams, a lot of barriers on the way but you need to fight and struggle for a breath out of water coz it is 100% possible.

Work hard, work hard, work hard, work hard anyway and I am guaranteeing you abundant success afterwards!

All the best

By Erick Chrispin

  

A GUIDE TO SETTING YOUR GOALS FOR 2014

As years pass we need to move ahead in our life development, we need to personally develop and achieve our vision, our dreams at least to come out with new achievements, we need to go more steps ahead economically, socially and may be politically.

The fact is that you will never realize your dreams if you do not plan because planning activate activities to do on your dreams. I want to show you what you can do to plan for this year so that you can deliver and realize what you have dreamt to achieve in 2014.

In fact you need to personally evaluate yourself on what happened last year and plan what you will be doing this year. I have prepared you some strategic points/ questions which will guide you on your personal evaluation. This evaluation can be done perfectly in a calm or cool environment, a place where you feel cool and relaxing when you are there. In my case when I was doing this I used to go to hotel close to beach and take a room, stayed there alone for 24 hours evaluating and planning for this year.

 Being there I got a chance to meditate while seating on the beach, for sure I got a lot of new ideas, I made a new personal vision for thist year, I acquired a very powerful, inspiring and big dream and then I strategized, so this year I have a very good plan and very confident year. I am now stressed free for 2014 I hope at the end of this year I will realize the great achievements of my vision, my goals and dreams because already I know the way to go through, I have a map to follow.

I kindly ask you to do this activity and you will realize what I am telling you and it will help you a lot. Please go with me through these guidelines.

PERSONAL EVALUATION GUIDING QUESTIONS

·         What was the most fun I had this past year?

·         What did I lean this past year?

·         What did I change for good this past year?

·         What bad habits did I pick up this past year?

·         What books had the biggest impact on me this past year?

THE WAY FORWARD

·         What important projects would I like to complete this next year?

·         What am I looking forward to in my personal life this next year?

·         What skills would I like to sharpen this next year?

·         What books will help me the most this next year?

·         How can I increase my service to others this next year?

·         How much would I like to earn this next year?

Succeeding to answer all these questions effectively you are going to realize a new personal vision and mission of your life and this year is going to be a year with full of success to you but only if you are going to work on your entire mission you have discovered through this exercise. Remember to write down each and every answer you are coming up with.

Please I hope to see you back and share your success with others through this blog next time and may be next year.

God bless you more.

Bye!

Erick Chrispin.

WHEN PARENTS FAIL TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THEIR CHILDREN WANT

Have you ever asked yourself a question why many parents keep on conflicting with their daughters and sons as those children grow up adults? When I decided to follow why by asking these children most of them told me that their parents forced them not to live a life they want instead what their parents want. I took my time to follow up parents and get their opinion on that, their response was that; their children think they know more than them while in reality they are the one who knows more as they are the one who brought those children in the world hence they can choose how their children should live.

Who is right between children and parents?

I kept on following up and discovered that many parents as they get a child they start dreaming and planning on how they want their child to look like in future which is good, for example you may find a parent says, “I want this child to be a world football superstar, a great musician in our country”, and most of them pick their own carrier from which they believe in and think of their children to be so in future, “I want my child to be a teacher like me, an accountant like me, a doctor like me, an engineer like me, a business man like me, marry a child from a rich family like mine, marry a child of my friend”, and so many visions and plans like these. The question to ask is that; although this is good but is it in alignment with their children personal traits and talents?

As blind babies, their children know nothing of what is planned unto them hence they find themselves living their parent’s programs as they grow. Becoming adults most of them at school they start discovering their inborn talents and start living them, some discover that they are dancers, footballers, painters, mathematicians, problem solvers in the society etc, if unfortunately these discoveries fall outside their parent’s plan is when conflicts start only if this child will start living his/her talent. 

Why? 

This is due to the fact that parents start feeling to be betrayed as they don’t realize their dreams upon this child as they planned before. The effects of this becomes bigger and bigger as these parents fail to accept that what they wanted is not necessarily be true to this child for being born by them doesn’t mean she or he is like them in terms of talents, abilities and choices of life. They become stressed and some of them who think less choose to believe that their daughter or son is bewitched not to respect his/her parents hence they may decide to jilt him or her and totally destroy his or her life trend.

A fearful child will keep on feeling guilty without letting her or his parents know what she/he exactly want in life hence will go to study unwanted carrier and fail to use it effectively and successfully at work, he/she will go to work a job not of his/her choice and looking sad, complaining in all his/her life, will marry a woman or man of not her/his choice and live without peace while cheating all his/her life.

In opposite a confident child will keep on positively confronting and demanding his/her parents to consider his/her good life choice and talents so that they can allow him/her to succeed in life. Most of parents who had those dreams never accept to change easily, this child will push and push until they desperately let him/her go and ultimately he/she succeed they come back and congratulate him/her. Those with wisdom will ask this child for forgiveness for how they challenged him/her for their conservativeness.

What should parents do?

As a parent your work since getting this baby should be learning and observing his/her inborn talents and likes so as you can direct him or her in the right way. Make a choice of life for your child and daughter basing on how you have learnt about their personal traits and behaviors, nurture that and not your personal selfish wants. As he or she is grown up consult him/her to know what he/ she think is a great life to live, share your constructive experience in where he/she want to side in life and not discourage plus coercively forcing him/her to live according to your interests, doing so will make both of you end up into conflict only if that child is confident and not fearful. 

If you feel like your children are betraying you by not living your dreams know that you betrayed yourself at first as you became selfish by thinking that your child must be like you. Your child can look exactly like you by face but he/she is completely different and a unique person from you in terms of his/her personality and talents so it is not necessary he/she behave like you in everything.

What should children do?

Be aware that you are talented, wish to live what God has put in you that makes you unique, if you always feel guilty with what you are doing now or the way you live now choose to follow your talent and confront the systems which program you to live according to them and positively change your life from today. A good thing with people is that they will reject you as you decide but come back to you as you succeed so no need to fear and stop living your dream.

All the best

By. Erick Chrispin